beafriendnotabully hashtag on Instagram - Photos and Videos

So I'm gonna get on a soap box today. joined the world of insta a month ago after two years of saying no. I didnt break the internet in a day with a million followers like Jennifer Aniston, I barely made a blip on the radar. I joined as a necessary evil for profession and my company.. thousands of patients and 9 years later, working for one of the top doctors in the country..I still get " are you sure you know how to inject my botox?" "i haven't seen you on IG" apparently if it isnt on IG..it doesnt exist. so here i al..in this carefully curated world of false lives, smoke and mirrors, look what i ate for breakfast, look how glam my life is..filters and screens. I have to take lessons. I dont even know how to work the damn buttons. makes me feel like my grandma when she refused to use the microwave we bought her "that newfangled technology" til she found out it could make her hot air popcorn. maybe she was right..they are discovering EMF..but that is another rant for another day.. so I am lucky I work for a Dr that it is never about the upsell or what I sold to the patient..she has never once discussed with me that I need to push product or more syringes..thank [email protected] it is always about the patient and what will honestly make them look best..which is so refreshing to me. So many people I see are trying to keep up with beauty..chiseled jawlines..lifted cheeks..no wrinkles..but it's also an inside job. sometimes we just need to put down the mirror and walk away there are people who arent even eating right now. there are people with life threatening diseases. there are people feeling suicidal there are people who feel sad and lonely people can be so mean with their snarky comments, the trolls and haters. why RIP people apart with words when you can lift them up. why all the online trolls?. so what is this rant about? does everyone ever talk to anyone anymore or are we too busy with our smoke and mirrors designing our perfect IG lives? #nofilter #nobigbrother #notechnology #justcallsomebody #mentalhealth #beafriendnotabully #benicetopeople #kindness #innerbeauty #positivity

**please read entire post** Couldn't sleep last night so here's my thoughts on something close to my heart. Babies Aren't Born Bullies They say you're fat or way too thin They know nothing of what lies deep within The insults come, a nonstop assault Causing you to keep it all locked in a vault A vault of secrets where most people hide All scars and insecurities are kept inside We try to look and play the perfect part But where does the accountability start It's not just kids or uneducated males The worst scars are often from other females They laugh and make jokes at others expense Without even considering the slightest consequence When did it become an acceptable status quo To tear down each other whether friend or foe We look at statistics, the "not my kid cry" But why are more children choosing to die Do we truly not realize this isn't a game Are we simply choosing to pass the blame Way less time with our kids than ever before Whether it's work or simply not caring anymore I hope for days when all kids are included No child should eat while hiding and secluded Where recess is no longer a popularity contest But instead a way to teach empathy and inclusion at it's best We need to do better in all aspects While treating each other with basic respect I pray for a time where the bullying stops Where parents no longer place flowers on their child's casket top Teach your child to step up and take a stand To always be the one holding out a helping hand Make sure they know to include everyone How would you feel if it were your daughter or son I write these words not to preach But instead I'm hoping one kid I'll reach Not every kid has the same advantage Always remind your kid to not act like an entitled savage Please don't say it can never happen to you There's no way of knowing what someone's going through So please strongly consider teaching your kids right Because you may just end up saving someone's life #stopbullyingnow #yourlifematters #dontbeajerk #loveyourself #dontraiseassholes #askforhelp #suicideawareness #beafriendnotabully #bethebetterperson